To retrieve your online gift payments, please login to your PayPal account and click the Withdraw tab. There you will find several options for withdrawing your money. If you forgot your login e-mail address, you can find it in your Honeyfund Payment Settings.
If your gifts were pledged via cash or cheque, you should have received the payments directly from your gift givers (e.g. in the post to the address you provided in your Honeyfund account, or at the wedding, or otherwise in person).